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Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Experiment 626

Lynnden's birthday is June 26th. Ammon lovingly jokes that he will always remember it because she is our very own Experiment 626.
(This is a Lilo and Stitch reference in case any of you out there are not as devoted to your Disney trivia as you should be.)

It wasn't until I was searching for pictures of Stitch (aka "Experiment 626") that I realized just how appropriate that reference actually is. Lynnden was a very difficult adjustment. I know all newborns are difficult, but she was her own special kind of difficult. In the beginning there were so many nights...and days...and nights and days and nights and days that I remember just crying while she was crying. And using all of my strength (sometimes more than all of my strength) to just...keep her alive. She was SO loud. She grew out of the constant crying eventually (she didn't do dairy it turns out) and WOW that has helped us to appreciate her. Still though, she is quite loud. And quite disruptive.


To quote the movie,

Gantu:
What is that monstrosity?
Jumba:
Monstrosity? What you see before you is the first of a new species. I call it Experiment 626. It is fire-proof, bullet-proof, and can think faster than super computer. It can see in the dark, and lift objects three thousand times its size. It's only instinct... to destroy everything it touches! Ha ha ha ha!
Grand Councilwoman:
So it IS a monster.
Jumba:
Eh, just a little one.

Hehe.
Okay, okay. She's really not that bad. In fact, we actually think she's pretty terrific. We wouldn't give her away for anything (you were worried, I can tell). I mean, after all, she's family.


(Although I do feel it appropriate to tell you that I just had to stop typing this because she had silently and thoroughly covered herself with a tube of lipstick from my bag...)

Well, our little experiment had a birthday. Her very first birthday. Those are pretty special.
What only a year ago started out like this:

Somehow blossomed into this:

She is beautiful. And funny. And full of life. And we love her with our whole entire hearts.

So what did we do to celebrate our Lovely Lynnden on her birthday? Well, we tried to give her a lovely day.

It started with our usual wake-up birthday singing and gift giving. She was surprised to say the least.

And maybe not a morning person.

But with the proper motivation she perked right up.


Ummm, excuse me...Mother? Can we do this every morning?

Hey, Ammely! Check this out! Snacks! In our room! Before breakfast!

Speaking of breakfast...we made sure she got her birthday pancakes.

From there we got gussied up a bit and played with Grandma Breakall (who made the trip just for her special day) before we had to head out.

I scheduled her one year check-up on her actual birthday. Poor girl. But she came out with a squeaky clean bill of health!
27 inches. 16 lbs 5 oz.
From there we did a bit of shopping and then hit up some delicious drive-thru food to enjoy at home.

With full tummies, it seemed like the perfect time to enjoy some quality time with Grandma (and her spoils).



Of course, that'll wear you out. Luckily, it's nothing that a little beauty rest can't fix.

While Lynnden was recuperating, Ammely was thrilled to have Rori come by for a short play-date.

Heck, we were all excited to have our favorite Olmsteads come by. Especially the birthday girl, seeing as the Olmsteads came with some awesome birthday loot.


From there we headed out to Grandma and Grandpa Lords. What do you do for a summer birthday in Arizona? Don the swimming suits!

The advantage to the extreme heat in the valley? Evening swimming in an outdoor pool. Truly, it is perfect. A good time for everybody!




The darkness crept in quickly and we rushed home in an effort to do singing and cake before the sleepies set in for the night. We were only 50% successful...Ammely conked out for good before we made it home. Lynnden must have sensed that a birthday is not complete without cake.

And cake we had!

We lit the candle.

We sang the song.

And we dug in.

Really dug in.

After that, all that was left to do was to snap a picture with us life-giving, life-preserving parental folks.

It was a great day. We were all a little sad to see it end.

In fact, it was a great year. I'm a little sad to see it end.
The years really do go fast. Long days. Long nights. Really short years.
I'm eternally glad that our little Lynnden lady came to our home. We love her completely and our family would be missing an integral part without her. I'm so grateful to be her mother through both the stretched out moments and the ones that fly by.

Sunday, October 11, 2015

These Things I Know

Ammon's Grandma Hatch passed away last week. There hasn't been a day since I met her though that I didn't feel every bit her grandchild too. A flood of tender and precious emotions and memories came to me as she grew closer to her passing and as the week following unfolded. There have been a few things in that time that have especially stood out to me. I feel a great desire to write them down and I hope I do the feelings of my heart even a little bit of justice. "...and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know..."

The first thing that struck me was how eager Grandma was to pass to the other side. I use that phrase "struck me" with purpose. I found her approach to dying startling and odd at first. It took some contemplation for me to realize that her eagerness was not largely motivated by desire to escape mortality or its accompanying pains and struggles.She wasn't excited to leave here, she was excited to be there. She knew with certainty that she had done well what her Father in Heaven had sent her here to do. She knew that her mission here was complete and so it was with absolute peace and excitement that she waited to go home. And now it is not startling to me, but inspiring. Is there anything more beautiful? Could we hope for more than that? I hope that I can daily live in such a way that when my time comes to be called home, I too am not only at peace but am also truly excited to see my Father and my Creator. No fear. Just love-filled anticipation.

Secondly, as loved ones gathered over the past few days for visiting and viewing at the funeral, many spoke of the conversations that they had with Grandma. Nobody could bring to their mind a single conversation in which Grandma did not bear her testimony of some gospel truth. Grandma talked of Christ, rejoiced in Christ, preached of Christ, prophesied of Christ and wrote according to her prophecies. And her children (and grandchildren and great-grandchildren) know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins, to what source they may find joy and peace. 

The last thing to stand out to me I am sure I am not alone in noticing - it is the magnificent family she created and has left behind for now:
An eternal sweetheart and best friend (together so far for 68 years!)
Six adoring children
44 grandchildren and 
97 great-grandchildren (with more on the way!) 
It was so clear to me as we gathered at her funeral that what the prophets say is true. What Grandma always said is true. Children are an heritage of the Lord. Family is the center of life and is the key to eternal happiness.An entire chapel filled of just immediate family, to say nothing of the loved ones filling the remainder of the church, gathered together to "arise up, and call her blessed." 

Grandma's eagerness to cross onto the next stage of eternity was not a coincidence. Her peace and joy with this life and the next were a direct consequence of her willingness to live and speak the gospel daily and her commitment to building and strengthening family.  The blessings given by and the truths taught at the hand of Grandma Hatch are innumerable. But as I sit and reflect after this past week, these things I know: 

I know that a life lived in the service of God brings peace. It brings charity, which is the pure love of Christ. It brings virtue. And charity and virtue will cause "thy confidence to wax strong in the presence of God." Even and especially as you face the veil that has separated you from Him in mortality.

I know that a life lived building and strengthening family after the manner which God has given us will bring the greatest joy - in this life and in eternity. 

These great truths have been taught to me my entire life and I am fortunate to have many wonderful examples. Still, these truths have been made all the clearer to me through her. She is a "savior on Mount Zion" and I am grateful for the path she walked - the path of our Savior. I am grateful for the posterity and legacy she has given to her family. To my family. I hope to walk that path. I yearn for my children to also know her path - His path - and to walk it as well. To walk it well.

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Hatch, Vida Lamoreaux


Vida Lamoreaux Hatch, born on May 26, 1927, passed away at her home in Gilbert, AZ October 5, 2015. Vida was born on the farm in Chandler, Arizona in 1929 to Dave and Ruth Tenney Lamoreaux. She spent her life in the service of those around her, following the teachings and example of our Savior Jesus Christ whom she loved with all of her heart. She is well known for her homemade bread and her $2 bills that she gave away profusely. She loved being in her kitchen, where the back door was always open to all who came her way. She is survived by Orland Hatch, her sweetheart husband of nearly 68 years, and her six children: Gary (Jilene) Hatch of Willcox, AZ; Arleen (Bert) Goodman of Gilbert; Beth (Troy) Phillips of Tucson; Julie (Curtis) Nolan of Willcox; Dena (Rory) Baysinger of Gilbert; Justin (Mila) Hatch of Gilbert. She has 44 grandchildren and 97 great grandchildren, with 4 more on the way. Funeral services will be held Saturday, October 10, 2015 at 10 am at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 2740 S Lindsay Rd, Gilbert, AZ, with a viewing beforehand from 8:30 - 9:30 am. Visitation will be Friday, from 6 - 8 pm at the same location. - See more at: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/azcentral/obituary.aspx?n=vida-hatch&pid=176046426&FBNF=ShareObitAt&refsvce=facebook#.VhbTQWnHky0.facebook

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

April: This Month is Such a Special One

April 

It is kind of a big deal in our house.

It's the month that two of my favorite people in all of the world came into the world!

Ammely had her golden birthday this year - she turned three on the third! And we celebrated Ammon's 27th birthday too.

When I would ask Ammely what she wanted for her birthday she would tell me one of two things:
1. She wanted to play with friends.
2. She wanted to be happy.

She's a very loved little girl and lots of people came together to make sure both of those things happened.
We threw her a bit of a party at a local park where she would be able to play with friends AND be happy. With some date juggling, we managed to make it all come together on a day that just about everybody could make it. THANK YOU everybody for being so flexible and for showing up. Truly, she had a wonderful day.










In fact, the next day she, on her very own accord, said "Mommy, thank you for my birthday park." Gosh. Heart melted. That's what moms work so hard for. I think it was a total success.

We didn't just party at the park for her birthday though. Grandma and Grandpa Breakall and Uncle Jared came in for the special occasion. Which, of course, made everything more special and more of an occasion.

In fact, Grandpa Breakall's arrival was a complete surprise. Grandma and Grandpa Lords (sneaky, sneaky people) dropped him off at our house mere moments before we left to the park for her party. Talk about a birthday surprise! We were SO glad he could be here.

There was a LOT going on that weekend (Ammely's birthday, Easter and General Conference to name a few) and so we did a LOT with our special guests.

We went to Queen Creek's Easter bash.

It was pretty sweet for a free event. Went last year and will probably go next year too.








We hit up In-N-Out.




We ate at Grandpa Lord's house. His Chinese noodles are good enough to bathe in. 


We had a full day of birthday fun on Ammely's actual birthday day.

Including the traditional wake-up singing and presents.


She got the Minnie Mouse boat when we sang to her when she woke up. Then she took it downstairs to go with her other present from Mommy and Daddy...
...A water table! Best $5 we ever spent. Seriously.

Perry the Parrot from Grandpa

Minnie Mouse Umbrella from Uncle Jared

She LOVES to have an umbrella when she plays in our "raining" - a.k.a. sprinklers for our backyard.
Dress-Up Clothes from Grandma and Grandpa! Plus a camera, that I ironically never took a picture of.


And an ice cream run with Grandpa.

It's a tradition after all. No, not a birthday tradition. Just a Grandpa tradition (those are the best kind)!


We love Grandpa ice cream trips!...even if it hurts us...
1st brain freeze

And the aquarium.

Ammely loves aquarium fish. She goes to look at the fishies every time Daddy goes to the store with us. In fact, we recently had a random conversation where we asked Ammely what kind of animal she would like to be. Her answer? "A fish at the store." Haha. Who picks that? Ammely does, I guess.

Anyways, we thought it would be perfect to take her to the aquarium on her birthday! And Grandma Breakall was SO nice to take us all.







Grandma, even though Ammely had her cranky moments, you should know that she loved it. She still talks about seeing the fishies with "Daddy and Grandma and Grandpa and Jared"

And Organ Stop pizza.

How did we not take a single picture? This was awesome. If you've never been to Organ Stop Pizza, you must go try it. It is a one of a kind experience that adults and kids can both enjoy. Plus, the pizza is delish. 

We had some down time around the house.







We had an Easter egg hunt with the cousins!

We had an awesome hunt at Grandma and Grandpa Baysinger's this year!
Aunt Amber and Grandpa Breakall kept the kiddos distracted in the back yard while the "Easter Bunny" went to work in the front yard - gosh, Grandma and Grandpa Baysinger sure have the BEST set up for family fun.



Then we gave the smaller ones a headstart.





And by the end, everyone had quite the haul. It was a truly amazing assortment of goodies.


We watched Conference.

Conference is my favorite time of year! I am so lucky that it happens TWICE a year. We always get Donuts and chocolate milk for breakfast during Saturday morning session - this year from Bosa. Mmmm.

Lunch and afternoon session at Grandma and Grandpa Baysinger's. (this year also included the egg hunt!)






**cute sidenote**
Ammely hurt her foot at the egg event. She wouldn't let me or any other adult anywhere near her. But when her cousins offered to help, well, she was totally cool with that. Thank heavens for thoughtful cousins.

Sunday morning we stay at home.

Sunday afternoon and dinner at Grandma and Grandpa Lord's house (this year also included Easter dinner! - YUM!)





We had Easter Morning fun.

The Easter Bunny hides all of the kiddos eggs and then leaves their basket next to them while they're sleeping. Then as they follow the eggs the bunny left around the house they find their very own chocolate Easter Bunny.








Goodbyes.

The weekend of all weekends came to a close quickly though and we had to say goodbye to Grandpa Breakall. Then Uncle Jared. Then Grandma Breakall.

What could we possibly do to after a weekend like that? What could we do to pass the days away until Daddy's birthday?

Plleeenntty.

The Sandbox

Daddy spent lots of time and lots of muscle converting a giant old tractor tire we had laying around into a sand box for our girls. Goal? Complete it by Ammely's birthday. With a bit of help from Uncle Jared when he was here we had total success. It is awesome and has already been a source of hours of fun. Aren't dads the best? (And helpful uncles!)








HAHAHA - this is actually an excited look - not an angry one.



The shade Ammely received from Grandma/Grandpa Baysinger for her birthday works perfectly.

The sandbox and the shade are even fun when the moms refuse to open it! Haha.

The Water Table

Did I mention that this was the best $5 I ever spent? We play with this ALL of the time.

The Garden

Ammon has really discovered a passion and gift for growing things. His favorite thing to do is head straight out to the backyard and check on our nine trees, three grape vines, two raspberry bushes, one blueberry bush, strawberry patch, watermelon patch and garden box. (Can you believe that all grows in our yard?!) 

He is basically amazing and the girls LOVE to join him. Such good memories and lessons they are enjoying together.



Family Pictures

Amber was SO nice and spent SO much time with us. She got a few WAY cute shots despite the difficulty in working with our children.













FHE

Still going strong on our re-commitment to Family Home Evening each week. This was a particularly memorable lesson about Adam and Eve and the Garden of Eden.


Bathroom Re-Do

I saw this wall decal on Amazon and fell in love with it.

This spurred me into a passionate bathroom decorating craze. I started throwing together possibilities on the computer.




After listening to several of my daydreams, my mom generously surprised me with the decal AND the shower curtain that I wanted. SUCH a surprise - I am SO spoiled!

And Ammon was kind enough to let me go crazy with it - he even helped me paint! For a man that hates to paint, that is a sign of true love.

I think it all turned out pretty dang cute. 



Daddy's Birthday

Daddy's birthday came at last - signaling the end of the month. We always LOVE celebrating with Daddy. He is so much fun and we love him so much!

This year we celebrated mostly with food.
Birthday Blini for breakfast.


Ribs/Corn on the Cob/Watermelon for dinner - it was amazing if I do say so myself.

M&M Suicide Bowl - every kind of M&M in one bowl

He also got Big Hero 6. One of our favorite new Disney movies.

We built a giant fort in the living room and ate our hearts out while we watched his new movie.


Then we ate ice cream cake.

It was a good night. Turning twenty-seven never tasted so good.